Yeah it should be on last years unless he does a review to get it changed and the other party must be told of a review so they can argue their side.

I've been emailed the statements and they are absolute gold!

When I have a letter from DEX's Lawyer saying he is taking responsibility for the Revolving Mortgage he has already used up 20k and then in the next month its all used up and then it stays at or over its limit for the next 15 months.

So he had it at its limit for a year before he did an about face and decided to walk away.

that SHOULD work in your favour (i hope) But then again i would have thought the financial picture you had taken when you left would have worked too

I feel really confident that the facts, bank statements, online chat records, letters from lawyers etc all stack up to prove he acted without my consent and in his own interest.

But whether that is enough to get a court to order him to pay me is a different story and then if he will actually pay me its different again.

I hope it works in your favour, But i don't think you will ever see a cent of it, Will you be happy with just being right if they do?

Maybe get your parents off your back a bit too!

Well I should see a cent, there is money held in trust that we should get 50/50 once its all worked out, but if he owes me then I should get the lot.

I hope that works out for you I forgot about that trust bit!

Well I loved the statements so much I did an updating affidavit to get them before the court as evidence.
Using them I can cross examine DEX on his spending.

I have also filed a two page Memorandum of Issues as per court directions.

Worst case scenario, DEX is making no claim against me, but rather that the money held in trust should be used to pay (Joint but I'm arguing his) debt. So if all my case fails I have nothing to lose.

Best case scenario I get about 30k but it will be owed to me from DEX as I know he doesn't have it to pay me.

Interestingly, DEX is now accusing me of fabricating evidence, emails and SKYPE chat conversations.

I wonder if I am able to bring a computer into court so a judge can see them online and see they are not tampered with?