Hello lovely ladies....Thought that I would start a TTC after miscarriage thread...simply because I needed to vent!
I lost my little angel in at the beginning of May. We decided to have a full cycle before starting again and I got my next AF at the beginning of June only four weeks later much sooner than I expected.
I wasn't sure if I was going to be ready to try again, but I am more than ready!
I wasn't sure if I was going to tell many people that we lost our baby, but it was good that we did because now people aren't asking us every 5 minutes when we are thinking about having a family!
So I'm trying not to think about the possibility of being pregnant (I think I've ovulated already) but every tiny little thing peaks my curiosity.
Next AF isn't due for two more weeks so trying to keep myself busy with other stuff so that i'm not constantly thinking about it.
My nails are lovely and long at the moment....somehow I don't think that they are going to last

Hi RainyDay

I know how you are feeling. I also had a miscarriage in April and have decided to TTC again.
Before the mmc I could always tell when I was ovulating, when my periods were about to start. Now, have to admit that I have pretty much lost faith in my bodies "signs" or maybe in me reading them????
So I'm a bit worried that I have got it all wrong. Just hope it's not going to take forever....

Best of Luck to you
x

Hi Ladies,

I too had a miscarriage in April and am wanting to get pregnant ASAP!!
We had to delay trying again til this month because of having another health issue and I think we may of missed ovulation.

I desperately want to give our DD a sibling or 2 or even better 3

Heres hoping that we are all blessed with healthy viable pregnancies quickly!

x

Yikes! Sore & enlarged boobs, dizzy spells, weird appetite & an extremely sensitive nose! AF due today. I'll be testing tomorrow if it doesn't come tonight.

Ohhhh Rainyday that sounds super positive I hope you get a lovely BFP that is sticky - we are ttc too, and I am having continuous + opks.....very weird.

Well I wouldn't call it a BFP but there was a barely visible line this morning. I'm certain that I conceived quite late in my cycle so I'm going to leave it until the weekend & test again
I'm just glad that hubby could see the line too and it wasnt my imagination!!
Lots of baby dust to all u lovely ladies!!

Yay RainyDay!!!

Great news Rainy day!!! So happy for you.
xxx

You give us all hope Rainyday! Congrats on your BFP and hoping you have a super sticky baby.

rainyday i hope your faint BFP becomes a giant bfp!!! congrats hun and much sticky your way

Awesome news Rainy Day! Congrats

Waiting and hoping for you RainyDay.... we know you'll let us know soon. Smiling and wishing for happy post soon.

Bubblebear...I haven't been here for a while. I had to move to the miscarriage forum unfortunately bub didn't stick. While I have found these forums really helpful I've tired not to stay on here for too long. I should have posted on here though because everyone is so caring & wanting to know what's happened. The last few weeks have been really great. Hubby & I are having a break from TTC & is released a huge amount of pressure. I've been going to the gym more often eating better & I feel so strong physically & emotionally. I had a little set back earlier in the week when mum text me & out of the blue said that she was concerned about the fact that I buy my meat from the mad butcher. Apparently they are known to have high levels of listeria & that's why i lost my babies!!! It made me so angry that she would bring it up like that. I said that that comment didn't made me feel good & she said don't dwell on it just learn from it...like it was my fault that I lost my babies. I was so astounded that I just sat frozen for ages. I decided not to reply & let myself cool down. I let it go cos mum just didn't know any better.
So that's the update!! I hope that everyone here is doing well. Wishing u all lots of baby dust!!

Rainyday ... my heart goes to you, arohamai.

My Mum and Mum-in-law have done some crap stuff too ... just not thinking stuff. As everyone says if you have not lost a baby then it is hard to understand what helps and what does not.

are you in wellington? if so come to the miscarriage support group meeting sometime.

Hey i would add Medically, it is safe to conceive after two or three normal menstrual periods if tests or treatments for the cause of the miscarriage are not being done. Some physicians routinely recommend that couples wait six months to a year before attempting another pregnancy in order to come to terms with their loss, whereas other physicians feel there is no compelling reason to wait so long.

hope u would like to have a baby!!

wow Rainyday, what a hope...u give me so much hope...it has only been jut over a week since my d & c and 2 weeks since i saw my little angel baby when i delivered, and they have been the longest weeks of my life..just want to be pregnant again and give our little one a sibling, he was so excited, bless him.,..i am going to wait till i have a cycle but all this random spotting is making me feel like it will never come!!! arrrgggghhh..
but yes baby dust all round and hope everyone is keeping well
xx

This thread gives me hope that my feelings are not alone. My hubbie and I are TTC after losing our angel in Jan. I am hoping fingers crossed that this baby sticks. I do feel like a cat on a hot tin roof, and that I am going to ensure I listen carefully to my body and not over do it. I have waited a cycle so my body feels like it is back to normal and ready. Good luck to us all

Shelley